How to Approach a Woman, Part 1

Many men who get rejected by women can't handle it, so they lash out at the woman who rejects them by yelling obscenities at her or just becoming lewd and improper in general. This is why you must develop mental strength and tenacity so that rejection to you is going to be like water rolling down a duck's back. Most men are born to win, but they have become conditioned to lose. This is where you rise above the rest. Develop the right desire and imagination and the willingness to go through the grime and the sweat. Then you will overcome all the obstacles and challenges that lie before you. Eventually you will win. Even after getting involved in a dating relationship with a woman, you are going to still experience temporary rejections as a way of life with her. There are things you are going to ask her, and she is in a position to say "yes" or "no." You are not going to be 100% in everything you ask of her. Physically, women differ from men because their metabolism changes from one minute to the next. This is why you'll see so many mood changes in women. So don't blame yourself because you think it has something to do with you. I can assure you that it has nothing to do with you. It's just her nature and the way God made her. So don't take it personally!! The best way to handle her frustrations is to be caring, supportive and understanding. The men who can play the meeting and dating game the best will be the big winners. Never put yourself in a position with women where you become rude or nasty if they do or say something you don't like. Always keep your emotions as well as your ego in check and under control at all times. Do so especially and particularly when you are in her company. You want her to think of you as a really nice guy. Keep this in the back of your mind at all times. For every woman you please they are going to tell three people. For every woman you displease, they are going to tell eleven. So regardless of how badly a woman may insult you or reject you, don't blow it by lashing out at her. Always look at yourself as the stronger person, and eventually she will look at you in the same fashion.

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