How to Communicate with the Woman You Want to Date, Part 2

You can't look at finding and meeting beautiful women as some sort of chore or drudgery that you dread. With that attitude you are going to be blasted out of the water by one woman after another. You might as well print LOSER on your forehead. Women read attitude, desire, intensity and confidence in a man just by looking at his eyes. If your eyes spell out lack of confidence and indecisiveness, with no real desire in life, then women will read it. This ranks in the top 10, as one of the many things, that beautiful women loathe in a man. If you can't hit the ball, then you are out of the game. Beautiful women respond to confident men who are sure of themselves. Avoid projecting eyes of lust when approaching beautiful women. This detrimental quality will make your chances slim to none in successfully breaking the ice. Women loathe weak, insecure men who have trouble controlling their urges. Hopefully, you will correct any debilitating factors that you have before you make your move in approaching beautiful women. These factors can be rectified and overcome. You can turn weaknesses into strengths. Socially speaking, women have the upper hand. They've been schooled, from birth to adulthood, in to how to select a man. Many women read articles in women magazines, such as Cosmopolitan. They digest cutting-edge ideas that build barriers between men. These are difficult obstacles to overcome in trying to meet these women. This is why you should make it a priority to purchase these women's high-fashion magazines. You will know what's fashionable in the way of their apparel and what they are reading. Then, in approaching them, you can neutralize their defenses. You have to realize that the meeting and dating game is war. Women play and prepare for this game very seriously. Women, in general, want to be the big winners over men. They do not want men to be the big winners over women. So what if you are not prepared and you are coming off half-cocked in trying to find, meet, and date a woman? Then what do you think your chances are in being successful? You might as well stick to playing the lottery. So in spite of your preparation and planning to succeed, you are still going to be rejected. You have to look at rejection as part of the meeting and dating game. The higher tolerance you have to the pain of being rejected, the better you are going to do. Why is it, that 99.9% of the men do not and will not approach a woman on their own, without the aid of a third party introduction? If we were to take a poll, we would discover that the number one reason is because men don't want to be rejected. There are over six million people in the United States who work in direct sales. As a way of life, they experience being told "No" by prospects. But this is what keeps them going. They think how much money they are going to make when a potential customer tells them "Yes" in wanting to buy what they are selling. Whether you like it or not, you are a direct salesman when it comes to meeting and dating a woman. How does a direct salesperson work? 80% of his success depends upon selling himself and the remaining 20% depends upon his product. You on the other hand must sell 100% of yourself to the woman you are approaching. She, on the other end of the spectrum, is the buyer. She looks at you like a movie writer trying to sell a movie script to a movie production company. These movie production companies hire readers. All they do, all day long, is read movie scripts that are submitted by movie writers. The intent of these movie readers is not to see what's good about the movie script, but to see what's wrong with it. They look for all the negatives as to why it won't sell. Then, after several months, the movie production company writes a formal letter to the movie writer. In plain English, they tell him, "No, we're not interested in buying your movie script."

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